Guest: Orli Cotel, Paid Leave Advocate

Why Paid Leave Is a Business Issue

  • Paid leave affects every employee, not just parents. Illness, caregiving, and loss touch every workforce.
  • Without national paid leave, employers shoulder the burden, creating inconsistency and inequity.
  • When treated as a business system, paid leave supports retention, performance, and workforce stability.

What Happens When Paid Leave Is Missing

  • Employees return before they are physically or emotionally ready, lowering productivity and increasing errors.
  • Crisis moments often become exit points when people feel unsupported.
  • The real cost shows up later through turnover, disengagement, and lost institutional knowledge.

What Strong Paid Leave Policies Include

  • Coverage that is inclusive, gender-neutral, and applies across life stages.
  • Flexibility for caregiving, serious illness, adoption, surrogacy, and chosen family.
  • Emerging support like miscarriage leave and NICU leave that reflects real-life needs.
  • Clear policy language that removes confusion and reduces manager-by-manager decisions.

Why Bereavement Leave Falls Short

  • Typical 3–5 day policies do not align with grief, logistics, or recovery timelines.
  • Avoidance of death conversations leads to underdeveloped support.
  • Narrow definitions of family fail to reflect real relationships and caregiving roles.
  • Poor bereavement support directly contributes to burnout and resignations.

How Compassionate Leave Complements Paid Leave

  • Broad compassionate leave works best when layered on top of formal paid leave policies.
  • It allows privacy for deeply personal situations without forcing disclosure.
  • It covers real-life events that do not fit clean policy categories while protecting employees.

How HR Leaders Can Make the Case

  • Reframe paid leave as a retention, risk, and performance strategy.
  • Use benchmarking to show what peers already offer.
  • Model total cost including turnover, hiring, and ramp time.
  • Focus leadership conversations on outcomes, not time away from desks.

Core Takeaway

  • Paid leave and bereavement support are not perks. They are workforce infrastructure.
  • When employees are supported through crisis, they return more loyal, focused, and committed.
  • The strongest organizations treat leave as a connected system that helps people recover and perform.